Love Past & Present

As we all know that every age has its own requirements and some needs which according to some people have the status of innovation or fashion and some people become compelled because those who do not walk with the times Is declared ignorant, stereotyped and uncivilized While carrying the demands of the past is tantamount to gambling, because such people are sometimes called mentally retarded by modernists, but the fact remains that time is of the essence. Yes, it is always considered good after it has passed Just as a person is praised after he has left this world, even if he has not done anything admirable in his life, the past or the past is something that is always present and future. Is considered better than and this is human nature.

As time changes, its requirements also change and man automatically adapts to the requirements of the new age. Come on! Comparing the past and the present in terms of love, affection sheds light on some interesting matters, then it is revealed that the gift of love from the beloved to the beloved used to be a "handkerchief".The perfume was secretly delivered to the "destination" with a letter or a love letter and the beloved very happy after receiving this gift and later saved this handkerchief and love letter hide from everyone's eyes. Having it became the biggest goal of his life.If there was a sweetheart, she would also draw a flower with her hands on a handkerchief or write a poem through embroidery and send it back to her beloved with a love letter, rak' ah, letter, and sometimes this handkerchief or letter. When caught, a family member was beaten by all family In addition, diaries were also given to each other as a token of love and in the villages, the beautiful bird or colorful bangles sent by the beloved was the whole universe of the beloved.

 re-development is a disaster that since "handkerchief" has been replaced by "tissue paper" and letter has been replaced by the message, man has been suffering from lack of time. Life has become mechanical, not anymore. So the sincerity in the emotions remained as it used to be, nor did the impatience in the relationship fly away. Loves have become like paper. Relationships have gone from the heart to the wallet, which is just as strong or weak as his financial status. Strange blessing is everywhere.

The lust for material things has ensnared both men and women in their clutches. The talk of burning oneself to ashes in the fire of migration and separation has become a thing of the past. Gifts given in love should be judged according to their value. Felt The "handkerchief" was replaced by the "mobile phone"It became common for people to ask each other for clothes, shoes, or money. Sending "easy loads" was considered to be the greatest proof of true love; correspondence was replaced by "electronic messenger" Delete in a second after writing, sleepless sleepers don't know what it was like to keep the letter of the beloved hidden in books or diaries. Now, in this time of chaos, the nature of love has changed. Despite living together from the practical field to the internet (social media) platform, men and women are unable to give any name to "mutual relationship" and so on. In view of the ambiguity, depending on the nature of different occasions or situations, sometimes love is called friendship and sometimes friendship is called love.

The tragedy is that even after receiving branded clothes, purses, shoes, jewelry, the girlfriend is not happy, sometimes the lover's eyes are on the girlfriend's salary or wealth. But one thing is clear that both of them are in love for a few days then they start looking at each other unhappy and disgusted.

In the modern age, where the preferences of men and women have changed in terms of love, there have also been serious consequences, but the question is whether, living in this age of narcissism, we can imagine that our future generations You can call this era the golden age If this era has ever been called a good era, then you too will have a hard time thinking about what the coming era will be like before which this era will be considered good..maybe the children or youth of the coming era will also be the present era. Don't believe the young people who will be called the elderly in the future.

Just like we used to drown in a river of surprise and uncertainty when we heard from our elders about seventy (70) rupees worth of gold and four (4) rupees worth of wheat But the series of what, why, when and how did not end. Who knows what the next age will be like ...? Maybe you and I have passed away. We consider the people who passed away before us to be lucky. May Allah bless the whole planet as well as all human beings and birds. Amen.